Selfless Esteem / October 17, 2023

Defeat Self-Criticism

Dear Selfless Esteem, I have noticed that when I look at one negative aspect of myself, it seems to turn into a downward…

Wellbeing / September 30, 2023

How Food Affects Your Mood

Dear Selfless Esteem, I think what I eat affects how I feel. Can you tell me how food affects mood? With the holidays…

Wellbeing / September 24, 2023

Managing Chronic Illness: Feel Remarkably Better Mentally and Spiritually

Dear Selfless Esteem, I have chronic health problems. I feel so sad. What did I do to deserve this? Signed, Sick of Being…

Wellbeing / August 26, 2023

3 Successful Strategies You Need to Develop Good Habits

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Dear Selfless Esteem, School’s starting and I’m having a hard time getting back into the swing of things. I feel like I don’t…

Wellbeing / August 12, 2023

Religious Trauma: The Devastating Effects and How To Heal

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Dear Selfless Esteem, I think I’m a victim of religious trauma because I’m such a perfectionist. I’ve been this way since I was…

Romantic Relationships / July 9, 2023

The Do’s & Don’ts of Having Contact with an Ex

Dear Selfless Esteem, How should I go about having contact with my ex? Signed, It’s Complicated Dear It’s Complicated, Good question! The answer…

Grief and Loss / June 25, 2023

Mending a Broken Heart: 8 Methods to Ease Your Pain

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Wellbeing / June 17, 2023

4 Things To Remember When You’ve Lost Interest in Old Hobbies

Dear Selfless Esteem, How can someone who is constantly on to new hobbies find peace in the mourning of old hobbies? For example,…

Selfless Esteem / February 26, 2023

Why You Shouldn’t Feel Ugly

Dear Selfless Esteem, I’ve never liked my looks. I feel ugly all the time. I’m uglier than everyone else. I wish I could…

Grief and Loss / February 12, 2023

4 Crucial Sources of Comfort During the Grieving Process

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Dear Selfless Esteem, I’ve been grieving the death of a loved one for years. I feel comforted at church because of my belief…

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